Forgiveness Does Not Change The Past, But It Does Enlarge The Future – Paul Boese

Forgiveness is a decision to let go of resentments and thoughts of revenge. It is an act of unloosing yourself from thoughts and feelings that restrain you to the offense committed against you.

Nearly everyone has been hurt by the actions or words of someone. It could be anything, maybe:

• Someone bullied you.
• Your partner left you.
• People called you names.
• Your partner had an affair.
• Your parents criticized you.
• Your loved one was abused.
• Friends gossiped about you.
• You were publicly humiliated.
• Your loved one was murdered.
• Somebody said lies about you.
• Etc.

These events usually leave you with feelings of bitterness, anger and even revenge. If you don’t embrace forgiveness, you will destroy yourself with these feelings. By embracing forgiveness, you embrace peace, hope, gratitude and joy. Forgiveness will help you to reduce the intensity of these feelings so that you can feel free, healthier and happier in the present.

Forgiving someone doesn’t mean you have forgotten what happened, it doesn’t even mean you are condoning what the other party or person has done, only that, you are just letting go of toxic feelings and emotions. Forgiveness does not mean that you have to reconcile with someone who badly treated you, or live with them or even eat with them or proving that you’ve forgiven them. Not at all! It’s your own choice and yours alone to make.

To withhold forgiveness is to choose to continue to remain the victim. You always have a choice. When you forgive you do it for you, not for the other person. The person you have never forgiven. . . controls you! To forgive is to set the prisoner free, and that prisoner is you!

Unforgiveness can cause serious health problems, such as high blood pressure, that can lead to disabilities, etc.

Forgiveness is a journey and you might need to do it everyday, until you feel free and uncontrolled from those thoughts. With forgiveness, you can remember the event, but those thoughts will never have an effect whatsoever to bring you back to bondage. You will think and remember, but because you’ve already forgiven, you will remember with total peace in your heart.

If you’ve been hurt, don’t worry, you are not the only one! Billions of people on earth have been hurt before. I encourage you to set yourself free from the captivity of unforgiving. Yes, people might be so cruel, but you owe it to yourself to set yourself free. It’s a wise choice! With forgiveness, the sooner you do it the better.

To Err Is Human; To Forgive, Divine! – Alexander Pope

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Everyday offers each and everyone of us a chance to make choices. We can make choices to be financially successful, change our eating habits,exercise more, acquire knew knowledge, plus so many things. We can even decide to do nothing and maintain old habits, such as procrastinating, being lazy and so forth. We make choices!

The choices are ours to make. Many people woke up everyday frustrated about their lives. They want things to change but refuse to make the right choices to change them. They go about their day doing the same things that didn’t work yesterday, making the same decisions and choosing the wrong things such as rest instead of labor, Television instead of education, anger instead of self control, etc. Will things change? No! Life will continue to be a one big circle of misery and frustration!

There is no need to be frustrated when you have the power to make a choice and change your life. The procedures that didn’t work yesterday need not to be implemented again today. Choose life instead of death, blessing instead of curse, joy instead of misery and success instead of failure. The choice is yours to make.

Don’t let temporary pleasures stand in your way, hindering you to do what is right for the future. You have the power to make the right choices. If TV is stopping you to achieve better results, then get rid of it. Whatever it is that stands in your way, make a choice to get rid of it and move on to accomplish your important goals.

‘If you don’t like how things are, change them! You’re not a tree’, said Jim Rohn

You have the ability to totally transform every area in your life – and it all begins with your very own Power of Choice.

To Your Higher Potential

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